I joined BlogHer just 2 days back , and I’ve been putting up some posts. I think I’m doing pretty good for a profile that’s just 2 days old . “MEN PREFER BRAINS , NOT BLONDES ” was my third post or something on BlogHer and I actually got quite a good number of reads for that post. I think this is one of the most sensible stuffs I’ve ever written , and I wanna share it with you guys . I believe it’s worth reading . If any of you are on BlogHer you can take a look at my page here . Follow me if my posts interests you or else thank you so much for dropping by :)
So here’s the post .
MEN PREFER BRAINS , NOT BLONDES
Are you really , really beautiful?? Do you have sexy pouts and long beautiful blonde hair , do you have those perfect pearly whites giving out a perfect smile ?? You’ve got all this ?? Wow , then you are a stunner .
Now , are you smart ?? Are you talented ?? Can anyone have a brainstorming conversation with you ??? NO?? Well , then you are not gonna find a smart guy . Standing up for feminism doesn’t involve just fighting for women rights and talking all day long on how important you are to this world as a woman . In my opinion , as a woman there is this one thing through which you “should” show the world how strong you are a – being really , really smart .
If you’re thinking that men are attracted to blondes and sexy brunette’s with sexy legs and yada yada yada , that is totally wrong . Well , I’m not telling that all these attributes are not important . They are . They definitely are . But if a man comes to you just for the sake of all these attributes even after knowing that you are not smart , knowing that you are not educated , knowing that you are not strong as an individual , then he is likely an idiot . In the future it will not only ruin your relationship in this fast paced world , but also , it will not help you both grow as a couple , it will not help you grow as an individual .
The real truth and fact is this : If a man knows what is good for him , and if that man is smart , the real good gentleman will prefer brains , not blones . This , in a way is a victory to feminism . Today woman are expected to be smart . I am using this word , “smart” over and over again because , it is very important if you are planning on a grand life . Women are expected to be smart , rebellious, brainstorming , educated , and so much more . Well , damn the ones who expect these things from you .
That main questions is : what do you expect from yourself ?? what kinda potential do you think you can hold?? how much do you think you can grow as a woman .??We can all learn the answers to these question by traveling , by getting to a work experience , by traveling , from your family and friends or maybe from a very hard break-up . But , I believe that the only way to answer these questions is by giving yourself the greatest gift ever : EDUCATION .
Educate yourself . Educate yourself and please , please educate yourself . I think education is the only answer to almost all the problems this world is going through right now . Well there are people who have become legends just by following their dreams and working their ass off . But their life and success doesn’t give a guarantee to your life , and to give yourself that guarantee that you are gonna lead a good life , you have to get educated . Learn , learn every single day . Finish your high school , get a college degree, work for people , make people work for you, learn more, study more , get a double masters degree , just do all this shit . Once we women do all these things we are definitely on the edge with every great person who has walked on this planet . Educate yourself , educate your child and her child .
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